Sometimes the direct approach is best-just ask.But if that seems too bold,look for some of these telling signs.
BEHAVIOUR
- Pay attention to your conversation with the person in question.
Does this person show a special interest in talking with you and, once its
started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
- Does this third person"accidently" run into you in
places where he knows you will be,such as at your desk?at the
mall?eatery?cinemas?
- Notice whether this person mentions future plans to spend time with
you: "the is a new movie showing at the cinema. We should check it
out sometime."
- Notice if the person is making an effort to spend time alone
together. Cancelling other plans in order to be with you longer,or finding
excuses not to leave,could be a sign of romantic interest.
- Has the person been calling for seemingly. Random reason,such as,
"I was wondering if you knew what the new eatery down the street is called,"
followed by are you hungry?"
- Has the person taken a sudden interest inyour life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he/she is. Interested in something- and its obviously you!
- Observe how the person acts
around your friends-he/she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a
reason.
BODY LANGUAGE
- Sometimes seeing someone that you have a crush on results in
telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you
look at her? Her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into
overdrive. Does she jumble her words when talking to you?
- See if the person mirrors your motions: when you lean back, he leans
back; whenyou put your elbows on the table,he does the same.
- Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position-that
is,facing you with arms uncrossed, or crossing her legs in your direction
if the person is a woman.
- Does he move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as
patting your hand or touching you cheek?
- Look for other elements of body language such as frequent eye
contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away,energetic
speech coupled with open hands, or flashing palms.
- Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a
lot?
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